Paying child support isn’t something that most people look forward to doing. If you are ordered to pay, remember that this is a way that you can show your children that you support them even if you can’t be there in person on a daily basis. Even if you have a positive attitude about this, you should still ensure that you are taking steps to protect yourself as you pay.
If you are paying via automatic garnishments from a paycheck, you won’t have to worry about some of these because you will have the check stubs to show that it was taken out. This is your receipt to show that you are paying it. Once it is taken out of your check, it goes into a clearinghouse where it will be disbursed to your ex.
If you make support payments for your children directly to your ex, you need to retain proof that you are making the payments. This is so that if your ex claims that they didn’t get the money, you can show that they did. One thing that might make this easier is to open a dedicated checking account just for child support. You can then write your ex checks from that account. You will have the canceled check to show you paid. You might ask your ex to do the same, so you can just transfer money from your account to theirs, which can be proven by the transfer record.
If you have to pay in cash, make sure that you get receipts. These need to be written and signed by your ex. It should include the date, time, location, amount and payment method. Put these in a safe place, so you have them if you are ever accused of not paying.